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EL RESPETO SE GANA, NO ES REGALADO.

Tayde Aburto

August 14, 2016

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En 2006 llegue a San Diego sin conocer a nadie más que a la persona que es actualmente mi esposa. A partir del momento en que supe que tenia que quedarme en San Diego tuve que comenzar el proceso de adaptación a mi nueva vida.

Comenzar desde “cero” no fue fácil. Los primeros 18 meses fueron difíciles por distintas razones. Lo bueno es que desde entonces aprendí a apoyarme de mi esposa. Estoy muy agradecido con la vida por haberme dado la oportunidad de terminar con una mujer fuerte a mi lado.

Desde temprana edad aprendí el valor de ser respetado. El respeto no es algo que se puede comprar, negociar o transferir, se tiene que ganar.

Cuando comenzamos la Cámara Hispana de Comercio Electrónico sabia que iba a ser un camino lleno de retos y de bastante trabajo para poder llegar al punto donde diferentes organizaciones y empresarios vieran nuestro trabajo y contribuciones con respeto.

Creo que hemos logrado grandes avances en ese sentido pero aun hay bastante trabajo por hacer, al menos para llevar a la asociación a los niveles que nosotros deseamos.

No se trata de una cuestión de ego. Nosotros entendemos claramente que para poder ofrecer mas valor a nuestros miembros, HISCEC tiene que ser una asociación que sea respetada en todos los niveles.

HISCEC es relativamente “joven” en el mercado. No es una asociación empresarial con 25 años como muchas en el mercado. Tan sólo tenemos 8 años contando desde el primer día que el sitio web de HISCEC se hizo publico.

Entre mas respetada sea HISCEC y el trabajo que hace su servidor, mas fácil será para ambos el lograr metas de mayor alcance.

A mi me ha tocado pasar por un proceso de aprendizaje que ha sido relativamente largo, al menos así es como se siente. Aunque cuando pongo las cosas en perspectiva me doy cuenta que hemos logrado bastantes metas en muy poco tiempo.

Uno de los consejos que constantemente doy a todos los empresarios con los que tengo contacto semana con semana es el de invertir el tiempo y los recursos necesarios para ganarse el respecto del mercado y de las personas que están a su alrededor.

Dicen por ahí, “Crea fama y échate a dormir”.

Ese dicho popular aplica en las buenas y en las malas. Invertir tiempo en generar una buena reputación toma bastante tiempo y hay que ser tan abierto y sincero como sea posible para ir generando una relación de confianza y respeto entre las partes.

Creo fielmente que sin tener respeto de las personas que están a tu alrededor y a las que sirves, es muy difícil que logres todas tus metas.

#ElCEOSolitario entiende mejor que nadie la importancia del respeto y el tiempo. Es mas fácil hacer crecer una empresa cuando tienes el apoyo y respeto de personas que creen en tu trabajo.

Yo me siento afortunado de cómo San Diego me ha adoptado y de la decenas de personas que he conocido gracias a HISCEC. El crecimiento de la organización no seria posible sin la admiración y respeto que nos hemos logrado ganar a base de trabajo en el mercado.

Reitero que aun no podemos lanzar las campanas al vuelo porque reconozco que todavía hay bastante trabajo por hacer para que mas organizaciones, empresarios y entidades claves reconozcan y respeten nuestro trabajo.

Por eso estamos yendo de regreso a la esencia de lo que es una cámara de comercio y estamos incorporando elementos innovadores que nos permitan diferenciarnos de los demás.

Te invito a que comiences a invertir en todas las actividades que ayuden a fortalecer tu marca personal para que tu voz y tu trabajo tengan mas peso. Cuando te conviertes en una persona respetada en tu área de interés, tu nivel de influencia incrementa y con ello el logro de metas se hace un poco más sencillo.

Es bien importante tener en cuenta que así como se gana el respeto se pierde! Por ello tienes que estar siempre invirtiendo tiempo en cuidarlo y hacerlo crecer.

Yo invierto 65+ horas de trabajo a la semana construyendo el legado por el cual quiero ser reconocido. Quiero dejar un legado del cual todos mis seres queridos, amigos y aliados estratégicos se sientan muy orgullosos.

La misión en la que estoy no es algo que se puede concretar de la noche a la mañana. Por eso el arduo trabajo y la inversión en todo lo que ayude a ganar el respeto de las personas que admiro y de las organizaciones con las que trabajamos.

Te invito a que inviertas tiempo en desarrollar tu marca personal en base a valores, trabajo, disciplina, respeto y pasión por lo que haces.

Muchas gracias por seguir leer este post en la serie de #ELCEOSolitario. Ya pronto viene el podcast.

Sinceramente,

Tayde

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